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October 8, 2014

Of commitment and unconditional love


Our wedding cake topper, 3 years later!

I was going through a pile of things in my room at my parent’s yesterday, when I saw our wedding cake topper safely tucked and sealed. Today marks the 3rd year of us signing the papers as husband and wife (*blogpost here) and a day we’ve been looking forward to despite a tough year. One of the (difficult) things I’ve grown to learn is that marriage requires hard work. A lot of it.


So hard that I sometimes wonder if it is worth it and my better (and more patient) half assures me it is. That the road ahead is filled with challenges to strengthen us as a couple. That it is ok to make mistakes as long as you learn from them.



One sagely advice we were given about marriage is how to constantly keep the flame alive and learn to fall in love with each other again. It gets harder and harder as the years go by, as familiarity breeds contempt.

To my darling husband,

Thank you for your unconditional love and continuous commitment towards me and the marriage. For your never ending support and care. For all the breakfasts in bed you lovingly prepare. For the many green tea pretzel treats and fried chicken runs you make just to perk up my day. And for accepting me for who I am and helping me grow into the best person I can be.


Breakfast in bed


The fried chicken runs he would make because I have crazy cravings

Happy 3rd Anniversary! And thank you for the lovely bouquet of flowers. My colleagues are envious and I’m proud as a peacock. 😛


So beautiful! 🙂

10 Responses

  1. Happy 3rd Anniversary SL & WJ! 😀

    1. Bangsar Babe

      Thanks Nigel! 🙂

  2. Happy anniversary to you and rif!! What a sweet post. Here’s to eternal happiness for the both of you! Cheers 🙂

    1. Bangsar Babe

      Thank you Christine! He’s the sweet one. I’m very lucky. 🙂

  3. Happy Anniversary! Marriage is such freaking hard work but it is also one of craziest, honestly rewarding, fun, joyous, journeys you will take and it is so worth it when you weigh all the rough against the great.

    That fried chicken and breakfast in bed looks pretty special but I love how above everything else, you valued his commitment and unconditional love. That’s something that’s easy to learn in a class but not always easy to practice.

    Congratulations and celebrate!

    1. Bangsar Babe

      Thank you rachael. Yes I have to agree. It’s easier said than done. But we’re learning every day. 🙂

  4. rif

    Happy 3rd anniversary to you too!

    Wow the amount of details on the topper is amazing! Especially my tie and your flowers.

    I loved you yesterday, love you today, love you always.

    1. Bangsar Babe

      Yes the detail to attention Jo Cyee has is amazing! Have to get her to come to KL and set up shop! 😀

  5. Ahsow

    Quick, someone pass me a bucket.

    1. Bangsar Babe

      Come and get it Ahsow.

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